# SELF HELP 26 ![rw-book-cover](https://readwise-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/static/images/article4.6bc1851654a0.png) ## Metadata - Author: [[Stephen Elliott]] - Full Title: SELF HELP 26 - Category: #articles - URL: https://stephenstack.substack.com/p/self-help-26 ## Highlights - The joke is: When you’re in your 20s you worry about what people think about you. When you’re in your 30s you don’t care what people think about you. And when you’re in your 40s you realize that people weren’t thinking about you. - “Show me the incentive and I will show you the outcome.” — Charlie Munger - How we undervalue attention when it is actually among the most precious things in the world. - Tags: [[favorite]]